I am researching Ann born 1828. Her maiden name according to her son's marriage license was Egbert. She is living in Newark in 1863 as the widow of Robert McConaughy. According to her marriage license to Frederick Hopler, she is a widow and her parents are John and Ann. She marries Frederick Hopler in 1864. Does any of this fit your family?
There is an Ann Egbert in the 1830 census living in Newark with a daughter the right age of my Ann and a son the right age of your Moses. From that census she might have had 7 or 8 children. She would seem to be a widow.