I have an Eleanor Shekell buried at Monocacy Cemetery in Beallsville, MD.
http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GRid=39...She was born on July 21, 1773. She married Robert Willson on October 29, 1798 in Montgomery County, MD. She died on August 21, 1851. They had a daughter named Mary Tillard Douglas Wilson born in 1812.
I doubt this Eleanor could be the same woman as William Cuyler's wife because they married in 1802/03, right?