Hello Sheryl,
Thank you so much for replying. Yes, Wiley is my great grandmother, Trudy May's father. Trudy May and her sister Hattie, are still alive and living in Tampa. Granny, which is what we call her, will make 93 in December. :)
And yes, with some help I have also discovered the name change.
I've also spoken with another relative that I found on Ancestry who told me about a cousin, Fred J. Carnage, who is also a distant relative of ours; check out the link for some history,
http://web.co.wake.nc.us/lee/ncbios/ncbios_a-c/carnage/19490....
Well, I guess this means that we are cousins!!!! :)