I saw your post on Edmund Cole. Is his middle initial W?
I found an Edmund Cole who after the war moved from Bay City to Gratiot Co., Newark Twp. He committed suicide by hanging Dec 9, 1900. According to his death certificate, he was buried Dec. 11, 1900 in Ithaca. Most likely he is buried in Ithaca Cemetery. I checked the listing for the cemetery on Find A Grave but he wasn't listed there or at the other cemeteries. The listings aren't always complete. If you want to see the death certificate, I can send it to you. It said he was born on Sept. 29, 1842 and was a carpenter.
I hope this is the right Edmund. Let me know. My last name is Cole but I am not related to Edmund.