Found these Coles on the 1850 Lincoln CO. TN census. They were living very near each other:

Name....................Age...............POB...........OCC

Cole, Eli.................60.................NC............Farmer
" Hester..{?}.....57.................SC
" Elizabeth ..... 31.................TN

Cole, John...............37................KY..............Farmer
Cole, Sarah ............34.................TN
" Isaac ...................16................. "
" Felix.....................12.................."
" Wlm.......................9.................."
" Mary......................7.................."
" Stephen..................5.................."
" Sarah Jane..............1.................."
Cage{?}Martha.........50.................NC
{maybe Cole?}

Cole, Marcus {?}C.....44.................KY.......Merchant
" William...................18.................TN.......Farmer
" Elizabeth.................16.................TN
" Mary......................14.................TN
" Louiza....................12.................."
" Susan.......................9.................."
" Margaret..................7.................."

Does anyone know these people? I am thinking maybe the above 14 yr old Mary could be the one I am looking for. The tenant family living on the Cole farm were the Wheeler's with Drury, 21, who married a Mary C. Cole in 1851 and
moved to Texas.

Wheeler, Wlm...........23 .................GA..........Tenant
Wheeler, Jane............20..................TN
Wheeler, Drury..........21..................GA..........Tenant

More Coles from the 1850 Lincoln Co. Census.
These Coles, as well as the ones listed in previous messages, were in the Tennepin Community:

Name..................Age.............POB

Cole, Willie............23.............AL............Farmer
Cole, Nancy A.......18.............TN
Phillips, Elijah I.......16.............TN...........Farmer

Cole, Littleberry L.. 29.............TN............Teacher
Cole, Elizabeth H. ..25.............TN
Cole, George............3.............TN
Cole, James..............1.............TN
.
Cole, Nancy..........54.............SC
Cole, Joseph..........23.............TN..............Farmer
Cole, John..............21.............TN
Cole, Emaline.........18.............TN
Cole, Nancy...........15.............TN
Cole, Anderson[?]..12.............TN

Cole, Wlm..............23.............TN.............Farmer
Cole, MaryAnn.......25.............TN
Cole, Sarah...........10/12..........TN