Apologies for practicing necromancy in a forum, but this thread caught my eye because the woman in question was my grandmother on my father's side. She was known as Betty, full name Elizabeth, maiden name Carr, married to Glover Russell Cogar (Jr.); two children, Sharon and G. Russell (my father) and from what I've learned, she spent the remainder of her life in California. She passed away in either 1991 or 1992.
I'd love to share what I can with anyone else interested.