Hi Ellen,
You must be married to Don, Dick, or Gene, who are my1st cousins once removed. I have lots of info about Ellis Pusey Coale, and some about his father, and I'll share, but I confess I'm a bit lazy about this, so bear with me. If you're married to Donny, I may have met you at Glenn and Lucille's anniversary barbecue in Arroyo Grande, CA.
Good hunting.
Judy Person