Hello Rita,
Are you Mrs. Helene Rita Rudkin from Family Tree DNA? I matched Helene as a 3rd Cousin, and I matched Amy Rudkin as a 5th Cousin, Remote.
I found this post today, and realized we mighty be talking about the same Clabbys!
My great grandfather was James Anthony Clabby. His father had a sister Catherine who settled in Boston.
I am unaware of any family members in Idaho.
Take a look at the Clabby's in my tree and let me know if you think you can help make the connection...
Joanne