Toni you mentioned that your grandfather is from NY. I am curious because my father told me that his uncle was named Alfonso (we are all from NY), and his siblings were, Augostine, Achille, Alberto and Filomena. Alfonso had many children I beleived named, Salverio, Carmel, Alfonse, Salvetore, Clarence, Leana and maybe Bettina. See if your family recognizes these names. Sounds very probable.
Ray
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