Robin, you need to work on finding out the names and resident locations of Wilbur's parents. Interview the oldest members of your family, aunts, uncles, parents, to find out all the clues they can give you, maybe some old funeral notices, etc. You build from what you know on back, one generation at a time. Census records help, and county records from where they lived. Most published genealogy is involved with families back in the 1800's. Good luck, Gene Rooks, Gotha, Fla.