Hi Phil,
Thank you for that information, it seems that most of it matches except my name. Nancy Anderson is not my mother.
My mother is Mary Rasitinus-Podolak. She was never married to Glen. There were three of us with Glen Edward Carnahan as listed on our birth certificates.

!. Mary Norma Carnahan (me)
2. James Leroy Carnahan
3. Bonnie Carnahan

My brother and I carry our grandparents names, Norma and Leroy as our middle names.
I am here because I am trying to put the mystery together. Secrets in the closet I suppose!

Thank you for your help,
Mary N. Carnahan