I am the sister in question. I just stumbled on this post. I can't explain why my email didn't work. I still use
dhbrj@tir.com and
hjacot@hotmail.com. Either one. If you have any questions I will see what I can do to help. Robert is a difficult man to follow, but nevertheless interesting.
My big question is the "rumor" or "family tale" about Robert's burial. It has been said he was buried in Harvard Chapel. I would like to know whether this is true or not and if so, get photos. Also was told Mary was a Howe/Howes/House. What's your opinion?