Thanks a bunch for getting back with me! Just out of couriosity, how old is your uncle? The Paul I'm looking for was born in the late 1940's. Carolyn(we call her Jane) went into the military in 1965 at the age of 19. From what I've been told her and Paul were both stationed in Germany, I think they might have gotten married there. I know they were married for at least 3 years because Toni(my husbands sister) is 3 years older than him. Like I said before it's very possible that none of Paul's family knows about us. Apparently they had a very bitter divorce. My husband doesn't really know I'm doing this, he'd probably strangle me. The things he has been told about his father are not real good and he feels if he wanted to find us he's had 30 years to do so. I myself believe that everyone deserves a second chance and sometimes they just need a little push to take it! I found my biological grandfather when I was 18 and I don't regret it. THANKS AGAIN! Erica