I recently googled myself and came up with this site where i came across your posting. I myself live in Phila,PA however my father is a Barnhardt his father has a brother named Ralph who resides in NC. I've not kept close contact as last time I visited NC I was appx 9y.o. I'm now 32. If I can assist you please feel free to contact me. I know my pop who is Ralph's brother also have a sister in Ill I'm usure if she's still living however I do know she had some children her married name is Rusk I believe. GL..Dawn