Hi Michele,
You mentioned Philadelphia & Brooklyn, so let's see if we share any connections. My Aquilino ancestors lived in Philadelphia. Great grandfather Pasquale Aquilino was born in Foggia in the 1880's and came to the US around the turn of the century. He had a relative named Urbano Aquilino who lived in Brooklyn in the early 1900's, and later moved to NJ. Pasquale and a female cousin, Assunta Aquilino, married D'Imperio siblings in a double wedding in Philly around 1913.
cheers,
Sherry