Thanks for offering to help with the Italian records which contain an amazing amount of detail.
By renting microfilm and with the help of an LDS Family History Center, I've managed to find several generations my Lilli family.
Several of the Lilli women settled in Pittsburgh, PA. I've not been able to learn much about them. Carmella LILLI married Peter SCOCCO, also from Forli del Sannio. Carmella's sister, Eleanora LILLI, born Nov. 1, 1860 came to Pittsburgh and remains elusive.