I never knew my grand parents but I believe that my grandfathers first name was John also. My father name was, Ralph John Desiderio and he was the first born of 12 brothers and sisters. They settlese in Broohlyn, NY from Angri in 1906 (I think). Most were butchers by trade except Vincent who was a dentist. My brother was alfonse
( Sonny ) and was also a butcher with his own shop in Brooklyn. I was raised in Miami Florida from the time I was 6 months old. My second cousin on my grandmothers side of the family was Alfonse Capone.
Wish I could tell you more. You can contact me at the following email address
noelchiefland@wildblue.netNoel