Hi Tina,
I am Paolo's friend and cousin (and also the originator of the huge message with all the surnames) and I'm sorry I did not get back to you sooner.
The couple you mentioned (Giovanni Gemmato and Antonia Lacedra) are in my file!!
Giovanni Gemmato born 22 Sep 1869 in Triggiano,
Antonia Lacedra born 28 Oct 1875 in Carbonara
married 8 Sept 1895 in Triggiano
One child in my files (obviously not all of them) Elena Gemmato born 23 Nov 1901 in Carbonara.
I have the Gemmato connection going back 12 generations!
You mentioned that they were from Bari. I presume you either were just referring to the province, or that you hadn't quite nailed down the town yet. If they had any kids in the city of Bari, I don't know. I'll bet they had most if not all of their kids in Carbonara (which was a town but is now a "frazione" (sort of a suburb) of Bari)
Send me an e-mail at
FamigliaBari@aol.com (my regular address) and I'll send you a gedcom file of the Gemmato ancestry. I would appreciate if you could send me a gedcom with your descendants of Giovanni Gemmato and Antonia Lacedra.
My computer tells me that your husband would be my half-6th cousin and Paolo is his 8th cousin.
Thanks!
Dan