That would be him. We dated for 2 years, not all of it bad (I did love him), but sometimes I ask myself, what was I thinking. He is a momma's boy, so like I said before, if you find her, you find him. Her name is Gerry Lebeau, and she moved to Reno to help her son Michael with his kids, she became the nanny. Michael is in Law inforcement, not sure if for the state, city, or county. He had a brother named Tommy here in Vancouver, but not sure if he is still here or dead (he was into drugs real bad). Sorry for having to tell you a story not so pretty. I hope that someday he gets it together for his kids sake. Take care, hope you find him someday.