I do not know the cemetery(s). I want to suggest that Joseph Nesmith is buried in Morgan County, West Virginia. But he is not named in the "Graveyard History". I believe his death date is too long ago (1837) for a marker to be found. His will was proven/recorded there 27 May 1837, so it makes sense that is where he is buried. His wife, Elizabeth (Palmer) Nesmith, lived so many years after and moved a great distance (Indiana and finally Kansas), I suggest looking in Miami County, Kansas where she last resided with her daughter (Ellen Daugherty), apparently her death was very shortly after the census there (Wea Township).
Harry Grossman
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