Thank you. Would you believe it but we did eventually find her last May. We used the Random Acts of Genealogy
Kindness website and then I had to go to
Woodford County to get her marriage license in
Illinois - that county is not online yet. We sent a letter to anyone with that surname in Wash, etc. We got a reply back and lo and behold it was her grandchildren. One of her great grandsons came from Wa and visited us in July for a morning and then we went there for 10 days in Nov. It was great seeing where she lived and meet people who knew here. I will remember your tips for further research.