Myra,
Welcome to Genealogy. You are now a Special
Agent of the family. Your task is to investigate the crime scene for all clues and attempt to identify documentary evidence, as well as physical evidence leading to information about your Subject. I've been involved in genealogy research for about 30 plus years on my own family, but helping for the last 15 or so. As a career investigator, I've always likened genealogy to an investigation...it is and the techniques are similar.
You must start at the first crime scene...the first person in the family and then go back in time. Interview any living witnesses about where they were born, where they lived, their siblings, and what they remember about their parents. Document everything you learn in "Interview Notes".
Then begin to obtain documentary evidence. Obituaries, family albums, photo's, address books, Death Certificates, Birth Certificates. At the first crime scene, many of these will be easy to obtain. As you go back in time, more difficult for many reasons.
If you intend to use the computer for not only research, but also documentation, START NOW. Many use commercial genealogy family tree software, such as
Family Tree Maker, etc. You might wish to use just a word processor, such as Microsoft Word to document information. You might wish to have a family tree, AND, word documents. This "Report of Investigation" will take on a life of its own. If you use online information, you will need to start a "Favorites" on your computer. First, a Directory called "Genealogy", then divide this with sub-directories of Different States, Countries, Cemeteries, Obituaries, etc. Then sub-directories to these, for example, under "States", you might have "X County", "Y County", etc. Each link would then be readily accessible.
Major search sites such as Ancestry.com have the US Census, World War I Draft Card images, State Marriage, Death databases, etc. It is a great site for finding information; but there is the cost. Your local library might offer it for free with your library subscription. Heritage
Quest, also a library free site, has census and old genealogy books online. I use it at home. For current newspaper obituaries, some libraries offer
News Bank or other newspaper sites. For census there is also Family Search Labs:
http://labs.familysearch.org/ . There is the
Ellis Island website for immigrant arrivals. If your family is of Norwegian Descent, the Digitalarkivet has the Norwegian Census, emigration records, etc. There is emigrant records for
England, ship record databases, Canadian Census online.... So, start your "Favorites" in directories, you will need them.
There are also so many helpers out there, Rootsweb sites, Random Acts of Genealogical
Kindness.
BUT....The dark side... There are people that try to help will give you bad leads, suggestions on people that can easily be proven to be the wrong family. So, you MUST look at each clue, individually and make decisions to eliminate or further keep the "Suspect" under surveillence. I have seen people that say...this was your person, only to show he was a son of people born in the wrong country. Genealogy research is like a criminal investigation. You MUST PROVE beyond a shadow of a doubt that your SUSPECT is indeed the person you seek. Otherwise, you might just "convict" the wrong person.
Have fun.
Ron Bestrom