Hello,
Thru help from William Drury, I have been able to piece a better view of Charles Drury of Nansemond, you can see all the information here:
http://trees.ancestry.com/tree/34951421/family I may have one too many Charles in the tree, but these are the right people for sure, I have made a leap of faith to connect him to the drurys of watergate east sussex in the UK, but I believe it is plausable. I have also made a plea for some UK drurys to take the yDNA test...