from what i remember hearing when i was a kid it seems like your grandfather was not that friendly at least with my grand mother. i cant say for sure but it seems to me that our great grand parents may have lived in detroit texas or that they lived nearer where your grandfather was from. i think our great grandparents were (at least one of them) from red river county and the other from okla.i think our great grand mother outlived her husband and the daughters lived near her while your grandfather was located closer to his fathers side of the family. but im not sure that they got along with your grandfather. would love to hear from you and i have lots of photos. your family also have lots of red hair?