Dorothy, I know this is an old post and you may not get this message. I am a local genealogist and curious. What is your fathers name and date of death? His death certificate should list the cemetery he is in. But if he is in an unmarked grave you will most likely not be able to find the spot he is in. I love enumerating cemeteries and it bothers me and other people who enumerate that there are so many people lost in the unmarked graves. No one should be forgotten. If you get this send me his info ok?