Just found your posting. I show Cassander and Susannah were married and living in TN on the 1860 Census, before the Civil War. He was 26 and she was 22. Also listed are two of their children, Mary C. 4 yrs., and John H. 1 yr. On the 1870 Census Cassander states that both his parents were of foreign birth. I also have info showing he fought for the Union side in the Civil War, in the 1st Alabama Regiment. I show his parents to be Casper Urban And Catherine Wise, married in Lauderdale Co., AL on Feb. 6, 1830. Does any of this sound or look familiar to you? Do you know exactly where the Urban family came from?