So, you would be my husband's second cousin! Your grandfather, Frank was brother to my husband's grandmother, Mayme / Maime. Yes, the family was split up with the death of Tony Kotilinek on January 29, 1901, (age 32) just after Mayme's sixth birthday, little Frank being 4 1/2. Certainly, Frank may have been too young to understand much and may have spoken Bohemian at home. Am not sure where these other names are coming from, but I have docs that match the census names. It is still a bit of a puzzle to me. Some of what I have is not for open forum. You will need to contact me privately.