Hi...thanks for your reply. It's that stupid unmarked grave that messes everything up...lol. I have no proof that she died. I know she did, ofcourse. Shortly after the birth of Annie, I'm guessing, since Jim was married to somebody new by 1900. There's no DC, no grave stone...no church that I know of. Elsie is my brickwall...that I'm currently banging my head into.