Ellie did marry Lillie Baxley around 1893. I think they may have separated around 1910 and she moved to FL with her daughter's family in the late 1920s. Their son Melvin Leroy Hair moved to FL with his wife and children, also.
The birth and death dates given in your message are for Lillie Baxley Hair. Ellie was born on October 15, 1873 according to his WW I draft registration.
I'll email you at the address you gave me. I would enjoy connecting with a fellow researcher.
Thanks again for trying to help me find Ellie!