Hi Rachelle,
http://www2.odcr.com/search.phpI found a probate case with a Pauletta WILSON filed in January 1997 in Mayes County District Court. You might want to contact the Court Clerk there to see about getting copies of pertinent paperwork indicating relatives whom you might contact.
Court Clerk info at URL:
http://www.oscn.net/applications/oscn/start.asp?viewType=COU...Mayes County Court Case No. P-97-00002
IN THE MATTER OF WILSON, PAULETTA
Date Case Filed: 01/13/1997
Or contact the reference librarian at the Pryor Library for a possible obit. (Not everyone has obits, but may have death notices.)
Pryor Library
506 E Graham
Pryor OK
Phone: 918-825-0777
And have you looked through the many links at the Mayes County genealogy site?
http://www.okgenweb.org/~okmayes/It would be helpful to in your post if you gave a little bit more info. Such as the parents' names and siblings or spouse of the WILSON you are looking for. And list your grandmother's names, for example. Someone may recognize the names. These posts are archived and you might meet a "cousin" years from now who might do a keyword search for your same people on these message boards.
Good luck,
Sandy