I did not find proof that the Jessie buried in Mount Zion is your Jessie, but it is a good chance he is. Your Jessie (Jesse) M. Holder was married to Lucinda (Lucy) J Massey.in Owen, Indiana on 25 Jun 1870. They were living in Roane, Lafayette, Arkansas in 1880 and Milam, Texas in 1900.
They must have lived in Oklahoma before they lived in Texas, as one of their children was born there. Sorry I could not find an obit. Hoxie Holder was still living in Thackerville, Love, Ok in 1942, per his WW2 draft card. By 1944 he was living back in Tx. per his son, Hubert Earl Holder ,s birth. They sure moved around a lot.
This is some things I found that you may find helpful in your Holder research.
http://home.earthlink.net/~bgholder/index.htmlhttp://home.grandecom.net/~dholder/b74.html#P2885Hopefully someone can help to solve this mystery.