This was the only Amanda I found, but have no way of knowing if yours.
NY Passenger List
Name: Amanda Meyer
Arrival Date: 29 Oct 1881
Birth Date: abt 1861
Ethnicity/ Nationality: German
Place of Origin: Germany
Port of Departure: Antwerp, Belgium
Destination: United States of America
Port of Arrival: New York, New York
Ship Name: Switzerland
She is a domestic, and she was alone....at least with anyone with name MEYER.
I haven't been able to find marriage for she and Joseph.