Martha Stithem (1818-1911) married Harmon Patch (1812-1896) in 1837 in Union Co. She is my G3 Grandmother. Her parents were Alexander Stithem (1785-1867) and Elizabeth Kidder (I have no dates on her.) Alexander's parents were James and Mary. Alexander was born in New Brunswick Canada and died in Union County. I don't know where he is buried.