Dear Aimee,
I should pay more attention to the message board! I am still not getting alerts. It is great to meet you. I have seen your name on Ancestry multiple times but paid little attention since, interestingly, we are not a dna match, in spite of our close connection. (Have you done the test?) You will be interested to know that my Havnaer cousins have a private facebook group and it all started with a picture of your grandfather's church in which one cousin asked if any of us knew about this church and its pastor. That got me going, looking for Joseph Jehu. I am not sure how to private message you, perhaps just by going to your family tree page, right?