Hi Suzan
In a real estate transaction from 1827 the wife's name is mentioned multiple times as SARY not Sarah. I do have the will where the wife is mentioned as Betsey so based off those two records I assume that the first wife Sary is the mother of the children and died sometime before 1834. I don't have any birth or marriage records for their children so this is all I have to go on by.
The fathers side is already traced back so I just need the mothers side. I descend from their son Alvah Hyames born 1793. My tree is on rootsweb labeled Deisiinger of Rochester, New York. I've searched the Rensselaer County genealogy site and the Troy Irish site as well as familysearch where they recently added wills and deeds from New York.
Here is the direct link for the deed where Sary is mentioned.
https://familysearch.org/pal:/MM9.3.1/TH-1961-32685-11646-33...I appreciate you trying to help me with this. I've tried on my own but with no success.
Kurt
Webster, NY