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1900 Census

Name:Ellen A Austin
Residence:Lee Township (west part), Oneida, New York
Birth Date:Apr 1855
Birthplace:New York
Relationship to Head of Household:Wife
Spouse:Simon J Austin
Spouse's Birthplace:New York
Father's Birthplace:New York
Mother's Birthplace:New York
Race or Color (expanded):White
Head-of-household Name:Simon J Austin
Gender:Female
Marital Status:Married
Years Married:27
Estimated Marriage Year:1873
Mother How Many Children:3
Number Living Children:3
Immigration Year:
Enumeration District:0023
Page:3
Family Number:53
Reference Number:44
Household Gender Age
Spouse Simon J Austin M
Ellen A Austin F
Child
Howard C Austin M
William Wood M
Sarah Snyder F
Source Citation"United States Census, 1900," index and images, FamilySearch
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She was widowed in the 1920 census

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there is a Patrick Austin in the 1840 census ????

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OK I am quitting for awhile!!