Hope this helps someone...I am not related.

Schermerhorn,Robert E., of Hoboken, New Jersey and Mary C. Ames of Tivoli married Tivoli Nov. 26 by Rev. J.L. Williams.
(12-4-1885)
Info. from "Marriage Notices, 1859-1918 Dutchess County" By Margaret E. Herrick

I did a quick check of New Jersey census records and found several in the Hoboken area.
Good luck in your research,
Ro