Wondering if your Critje Whealer from the rootsweb message board is related to Kathern Whealer of NY and her son, Martin, age about 1 in the 1860s. Have photos of them and Edna Whealer of NY. Kathern was the daughter of Jane Bucklow or Buchlow or Buckleh, not sure about spelling and maiden name unknown, but born in NJ, who on 22 Oct 1847 married Henry C. Post who was living in Van Buren Twp, Wayne Co, MI at that time, but who was born in Hoboken, New Jersey and in late 1820s lived in Parma, NY, before moving to MIchigan. Henry's second wife had been Jane Demorest Hendricks, also from NJ.