I need some help, I live in NC and am trying to find information on Herbert M Sweeten, he was my husbands grandfather. The last know address I have for him from Social Security death records is Rio Grande, Cape May, NJ. The vital statistics office in Cape May Court House said they have no record of his death, the lady there was very rude and only looked for maybe a minute for the record. All I know is he died in Oct 1966. I have been told that he owned or ran a motel/hotel in the Cape May area and his mother made and sold ceramics, her name was Katherine (Kate) Sweeten and lived with him. I have nothing to verify this information just info that 2 of his grandsons have told me. I have no idea at this point where he died, if there is no record at Cape May Court House then where could he have been taken before his death. I want so much to find Herbert Sweeten and his mother Kate, if anyone can help it would be greatly appreciated.