Came across this long lost thread, and am compelled to comment. In the mid-1990's I was at Cape May Point with my husband, 2 boys and parents. We wanted to go out to eat, and for some reason, we ended up in North Cape May, and my dad decided we should go to Dutch Kitchen. So we drove to the Villas, driving somewhat aimlessly for a time. Looking for the Dutch Kitchen. (Eventually we ended up at Menz Restaurant and ran into neighbors from PA).
To this day, when someone asks where we should go for dinner in Cape May County, Dutch Kitchen is always mentioned.