Hi there - I found your post most helpful. I too discovered a grave online of what I believe may have been a family member, only that I live in Australia. His name was Robert Hochmuth, born 1 Jan 1851 in Germany. I made several phonically today to St Mary's, St Francis Hospital and the St Josephs Retirement Community. Nobody is able to tell me anything at all about the Saint Joseph's Cemetery and the plots there. I know the last known address of the person, located between Omaha and West Point, and I know he lived with his son in 1912. There are however two graves with identical names, both men born in the same year. It is currently impossible to decide which grave is the correct one, so I do not have an obituary either, nor a death certificate. Its a tricky one, but your post has helped a lot. I will now focus on finding an obituary.