I have seen your postings and I would appreciate any pictures you might get a Macedonia....Let me tell you my sad but true story...I visited Macedonia in October 2004. I had my digital camera and I shot away...When I got home I downloaded my photos and put the memory sticks in a yellow envelope on a file box...My computer crashed and the repair man with one click of the computer sent my files to the recycle bin..Needless to say he is no longer my repair man..I had planned the trip for Oct. as I remember the vivid colors of the
Missouri autumn. That year you had not had much rain and what was usually red was instead brown..I forget how beautiful the countryside is in that part of Mo. I live in
Texas where the hills and trees are few..I thought I would never get use to the landscape of this arid south
Texas view..WE often have winters where there is not a killing freeze. It has to be 28 degrees for at least four hours to achieve that feat. This morning I was pulling weeds from my yard that are normally non existent. We are way ahead of schedule and spring flowers have been blooming since January>...wait until May and we will be overrun with insects....particularly fleas and water bugs..If you are not familiar with the term waterbugs they are huge cockroaches that live in the grass and sewer system. When you walk on the lawn you can her crunch crunch.as you are stepping on them...I have pets, two cats and three dogs...mosquito is the host for heart worms and fleas the h ost for tape worm...back to my yellow envelope with the memory sticks...two of my puppies found the yellow enveloped and chewed my three memory sticks to smitherines...I have minature Schnauzers which are in the
Terrier class...They chew and dig...I did not punish them as they started owing when I picked up the pieces...Sometimes we pay a price for being pet owners..and I am quite stricht with animals and children but then I allow them to be dogs and children...So much for obedience school...Macedonia is the burying ground for the Headys who settle in that area in the 1840's...In the 1850 census they are found in
Crawford co. They did not move but that area was turned into
Phelps co. in 1860. One map I have shows Macedonia being in
Maries co before the final county lines were formed. They received their mail at Macedonia, Mo...When I was there I visited with a Mr
Hays(could be Hayes) who is the present caretaker..His wife told me Macedonia was really a general store where people got their mail and not really a town....He also told me that there had been lots of vandalism over the years and when tombstones were broken or turned over theey had no money to repair them. He said the broken pieces were discarded by throwing them accross the fence....I thought I had a record of where all the Headys were buried but when I surveyed the Northwest part of the cemetery I found the plot for John S and Lilly Heady...directly south of there were a row of
Heady graves but not one stone was left standing....I know of only one
Heady that did not have a tombstone(I am recalling this from my childhood in the 1940's.) Sarah
Heady is buried next to my grandfather
Ulysses S Heady..She died shortly after he did and the family had waited for her husbanc to put up a stone..he never did...I do not wish to take advantage of your offer. Do you have a digital camera?....Since I was there I have learned more about the surnames that the
Heady women married into...In addition to the Browns and Headys there are the Overleases....Elen
Overlease had married Jacob Heady..She had I believe 4 brothers in
Phelps co. Jim,George and
Abraham are listed on her father's will but I found earlier a Joseph Overlease...By the time her father died there appears to be only three surviving children...All three of the
Overlease brothers served in the Mo 9th and 10th
Calvary during the Civil War as did Thomas(my g grandfather) and his brother Elisha...There is also a Jacob listed from
Phelps co. and the only Jacob I know of is my gg grandfather. I had written to the National Archives and they have no records...I already have Thomas' record but had some questions...It is interesting that they are listed on line but yet no records//? Alexander Heady's first wife Phebe is interred in Macedonia and his second wife Martha
Overlease(daughter of Jim) is suppose to be there but I found no record..Alexander and Martha were first cousins...There is also a Della
Heady who married
Cain Bailey ..they are buried in front of my grandfather east and north. Cain's stone reads Calvin
Cain but his name was
Cain E....Next to my grandfather is his mother Ida I
Heady but the stone readys Ida J..George's wife was Ida A but her stone reads
Isa I...I really love the way they spelled Ulysses......Could you tell me where Elisha's grave is? I completely missed it when I was there...There is a child named Lena Grace...could you tell me who she is buried next to..it might help me link her....It is possible that I don't have all the information and Alexander could be at some other cemetery...I have letters from 1865 to 1902..They were all written to Rebecca
Heady by her siblings and other relatives...One is from George
Tune who married an
Overlease girl..George
Heady who was an enterprising and a wheeler dealer has a plot that is surrounded by a concrete curb...For years we had wonder where he was buried and it was a great relief to find him..All of these Headys seemed to have a short life. Elisha had T B. Arrinda Brown also died of that disease as did her daughter Cordelia..I suspect that John A and George may also have had that disease...In 1877 in March I have Martha
Heady dying. She was first married to D D
Guren(the marriage licence say Garen) second she married C Robert Adams...He was born in 1810 and was older than her father..I checked on line
Adams Cemetery but did not see them..They are on the 1870 census in Commanche co....I suspect he died sometime between 1870 and 1877...because Martha is back in
Phelps co...C Robert is on the 1850 and 1860 census but beyond that I have no information....Denise I have CLL it is a chronic leukemia..while clinically I am doing well I have had complications from a minor sinus and ear surgery I had last Sept...It was suppose to take a week to recover and I am still recovering. To further complicate my plans I was told I may need more surgery...I have a great nephew who is a public defender for
Phelps co. and while I tried to intrest him in doing this he has no intrest..He is fixing to marry this summer and building a house at Vichy..It seems strange after all these years that I have relatives back in
Phelps and Maries co...When I am home they will go to the cemeteries with me, but when I ask them to go and survey one they drag their feet..I think deep down cemeteries make them uncomfortable...Denise any assistance that you can offer will be much appreciated..Thankyou Jim Heady.....I also wanted to say about the Browns in
Phelps co. It appears that they stopped over in Edgar co., Ill...I am having trouble connecting the dots..I don't know if they gave different DOB or if they are different Individuals...The Browns seemed yo have some kind of association with my g g grandmother Minerva J
Ingram who married Abiah Thornton...In 1870 I see Ing as a neighbor to the Headys and in 1880 in
Polk co....I wonder if they could have shortened their name????/