I read all of your posts and you FOUND what I having been looking for! The H. Gilbert Millisten is our Gulbrand/Gilbert Milsten, 8/12/1856-10/27/1903. No wonder I never found him, the name was totally changed!!We were told he died in St. Paul, but they had no record. Now we know why we couldn't connect!! I have all of the other info you found, but this was the mystery. Maybe we'll get the cert. to see why he died so suddenly, right after he was married, and before birth of only child, Gilbert Jr. 12/23/2903. Thank you for your help!