As to the Mesicks living next door to the Harringtons, Mary Mesick-Dyer's mother was Harrington before marraige...Mary Harrington became Mesick and had children with Francis Mesick( Abram Dyer was the first) then was widowed and re-married to Wilbur J Rogers and had 3 more children, my grandfather was Wilbur F Rogers, the youngest of Mary Harrington Mesick Rogers' children.