Hi again John,
I did find someone by the name of Kelly Poor on facebook, she's the only one I saw that lives near Merrimac, she lives in Haverhill. I'm hoping it's the same one. Crossing my fingers.
If it isn't her, I'll leave her alone, and not bother her. Then try those two other suggestions. One question...how do I find out who holds the deeds to Charlie's graves, and those of his family?
Thanks John,
Vanessa