Yes her dad would lie. there are people in the world who would never waste a minute of there time to help someone out. thats why i say thank you. where i am from people are very ignorenet and selfish. Thats why i say you are an angel. I been searching for a long time and never got any help from anyone. its americal as well as a blessing to have some one like you to take a moment an answer me back wiht all that information. knwoing you do not know me. that says even more. again thank you and ill keep you posted after july 28 on how it went in fall rivers. and ill call that young fellow as well and see where i get if iget no where ill drive out there and speak with him.ill bring him lunch nothing ot lose there. I am not giving up thats for sure exspecially wiht all you sent me. there is hope after all. you proven that to me. hugs to you love lexy. and my daughter will be so gratefukll when she hears this. she has given up hope. she will be all excited when i tell her the news..

Lexy,
Yes, do let me know how it turns out. You've definitely got my curiosity going on overload. I'm really pulling for you now.
Lisa

I was on the phone from 5 pm until midnight. and no pulliams i called had any relation to anderson pulliam or his parents. this is like looking for a needle in a hay stack.. I sometimes think people just dont want to bother wiht any of it so they just say sorry cant help you. I been screamed at on the phoone by people cus it is weird for me to call strangers who are pulliams and some do not even want to listen. i did get anderson pulliams address from limington maine the town clerk gave it and she said he is 85 and is a real nice guy i am hoping he may help me and not send me away it sounds like no one wants or wanted anything to do with this dead man. Its sad, But i have not given up.. eventually someones gone break and start talking to me. i M writing to anderson pulliam in maine. craig there was no listing in mass rhode island maine. the supervisor from information was helping me so i have no idea what state or town craigs from the one you were talking about thats listed it would be nice if you could send me the state and town.. thank u.

Oh boy, Lex, that sounds like one heck of a way to spend an evening beating yourself up; or getting beaten down! Either this guy was a real black sheep in the family or they really aren't related. Here is Craig's listing, but no phone #:
Craig E Pulliam
104 Coyle Ave
Pawtucket, RI 02861-1006
phone number unavailable
Age: 40-44

That's probably why the operator didn't have it. You should try using WhitePages.com.

I've tried looking for the daughter that was listed in the obit, Neddeidth Gregory; she is in Pawtucket, RI, too, apparently, but she is not listed.

Here is the listing for Richard, on Ancestry.com Public Records; one with a phone # and one at same address w/out a phone #. He may have changed his # and that is why; or he just made it unlisted.
U.S. Public Records Index
about Richard L Pulliam
Name: Richard L Pulliam
Birth Date: Oct 1949
Street address: 46 4th St
City: Auburn
County: Androscoggin
State: Maine
Zip Code: 04210
Phone Number: 207-786-9220
Record Number: 48867335

Sometimes it is better to write letters because you can appeal to someone on the behalf of your daughter before the person has a chance to cut you off on the phone. You know what I mean? Some people will not take the time to listen to you on the phone, assuming you are a solicitor or con artist or whatever; but a letter gives them the chance to actually find out what you want w/out having to make an immediate response. I think I would start right off in the letter talking about your daughter and what exactly is the reason for your letter.
I cannot think of anything else to do, really. The only other thing you could do to find his obituary is maybe try the library in Fall River. You can request a look up and it seems like they have the year of Anderson's death; but it's a bit of a longshot. They seem to only charge $2 for a lookup.
http://www.sailsinc.org/fallriver/research.html#obit

Haverhill Public Library has newspapers local to there also, but I can't figure out whether they will do lookups or not. You could try calling the Reference Dept. and see what happens:
http://www.haverhillpl.org/Departments/reference.html

It helps that you have a death date. It makes looking for an obit a lot easier.

Keep me posted...I'm emotionally invested in this now!

Best wishes,
Lisa

Wait, sorry, I just figured out that there is an index to the obits in Fall River; but his name is not there.

If Haverhill was his last residence listed on the SSDI then I guess if there was an obit, it would be in the Haverhill papers.

I'll dig a little more.

is in fall rivers index. i called they have it i just got to go in person and get it..haverhill does not have it

Have you tried going to the Bureau of Vital Records in Dorchester? They have ALL the MA records in one place, birth, marriage, death. For a fee, they'll look 10 years forward and 10 years back from the date you give them. Also, have you tried the latter day saints archives online?
Hope this helps

thanks lisa but the info lex says is for my daughter is not it is for herself. yes I am tiana's dad and I have all the info on my fathers family and she is running in circles. I have no clue why her mom wants this info and am sick of hearing it from her I have the information for my daughter when she is older and wants to know who what when where and why things happend till she is older I will not tell her. Her mom wants the info for herself no clue why.

thanks but the info lex says is for my daughter is not. it is for herself. yes I am tiana's dad and I have all the info on my fathers family and she is running in circles. I have no clue why her mom wants this info and am sick of hearing it from her I have the information for my daughter when she is older and wants to know who what when where and why things happend till she is older I will not tell her. Her mom wants the info for herself no clue why.