I have a correction to your Tannsstilly name. Benjamin T. Frost married Amy Caroline Tanksley. She was sometimes listed as Carrie.

Amy [or Carrie] was a sister to my husbands G-Grandmother.

1913 Neodesha City Directory
Frost, B. T., wife Carrie, farmer, Deer's Addition

1900 Census Wilson County Kansas
Benjamin T. Frost 51 June 1848 Iowa Self b ILL father b MASS mother b ILL marr 14 yrs 1886 Y Y Y
Amy C. Frost Wife 45 April 1855 ILL marr 14 yrs Y Y Y

1920 Census Wilson County Kansas
Benjamin T. Frost 71 1849
Amy C. Frost 64 1856


Shelly Cemetery [prev Bethel], Wilson County Kansas
Amy C. Frost Apr 17, 1855 Died Jan 11, 1934
[buried 2 rows east of her parents graves -Wm and Margaret Tanksley]
Benjamin T. Frost - her 2nd husband
Benjamin Frost and Elizabeth Frost - his parents - same plot

Benjamin T, Frost's father was Benjamin Sr [1814 MASS - 1888] who was married to Elizabeth Philbrick [1830 ILL - 1898]. I believe your Filbric would likely be Philbrick.

I have recent pictures of their graves [Benjamin, Amy C and his parents] and more info if you are interested. I am currently researching the Frost family.

Lynda