Gary,
I have a Absolom M Lamb born ca 1832 in Indiana (possibly Warren Twp, Marion County). He married Anna Elmoe 14 Jul 1850 in Fulton County, Illinois and then he married Mary Fairchild 27 May 1852 in Mason County, Illinois. Is this the same Absolom you are looking at? If so, you can probably help me more than I can help you but I will share what I have.
B Ann Gilmore