Yes that does really confuse people. I am sorry that was my mistake so thank you for straightening that out for me. I will note which cemetery. Helena is William's supposedly 1st wife, but if this is my great grandfather it's his 2nd wife as our immigrant grandmother Ellen Pearson Hayes died in 1867. But at least I can make her a memorial on FindAGrave if there isn't one.
I have waited for at least 10 years to find grandfather William's place of death, so if this is him, a few more days or weeks won't matter.
Are you considered a professional genealogist?
By the way grandma Flora Albert Hayes daughter-in-law of William's grandmother was Millicent Sears.
Small world when we really look at it.
Thank you again for your help