The Nathan Abbott who married Judith Stoddard died in Jan 1794 at Woodstock. This is confirmed by his probate record that lists widow Judith and those assuming the responsibility of the bond are Judith Abbott, widow, Ebenezer Stoddard, and Alba Abbott. So Judith Stoddard did not marry the Nathan who went to Pennsylvania and died there in 1804. The Nathan Abbott who married Judith Stoddard may be the son of Nathan Abbott and Eunice Marsh. There is another Nathan Abbott in the area at the time, but he does not really fit as the husband of Judith Stoddard.